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Forum Login Username: Register Password:     Forgot Password   Christalk Forum  ›  Prayer and Praise  ›  Christalk Prayer  & Praise Board  ›  struggling (Moderators: Gina) 0 Members Browsing (1 Guests) Currently No Active Members Pages: 1   Author    struggling  (currently 159 views) lfcb Posted on: July 2nd, 2010, 12:57pm Baby Member Posts: 8 Please pray for me.  I am struggling in what to do about my marriage (21 years).  I have been enabling my husband to have no reason to change.  I have been taking steps to change that and he in turn is being self distructive.  I have turned it over to God, but struggle with my feelings, a lack of rest and enemy attacks.  Sometimes I have to fight my urge to take it back from God, out of fear.  Fear is not from God, and I know this.  I need to focus on God and the truth in His word.  I realize this may not turn out the way I would like and it breaks my heart to think of that.  I want to trust in God's plan and purpose, but am struggling with that also.  There is nothing I can do under my own power and must surrender it all to God.  I believe in the power of prayer.  Please pray for me (and for my husband also)  however this turns out at this time.  I am very sad Logged angler Posted on: July 4th, 2010, 5:28am Baby Member Posts: 40 Dear lfcb,             I'm very sorry to hear of the problem you are facing. I myself have gone through a life changing end of a marriage of 13 years to the day. I was not a saved christian then either. It was so hard to forgive her of her infidelility, but I tried so hard. Only to have her cheat on me again with the same person. I know now that God was with me the whole time. I thought that I was all alone, but He was there.   I don't know the specifics of your problem, but I do know that you are doing the right thing by praying and asking God for help. Turning a problem over to God is the best thing to do and having the faith to trust and be patient for His will is very hard to do. Be steadfast friend for the Lord Our God hears your pleas and will surely protect and take care of His flock.   Proverbs 3:5,6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart,                       And lean not on your own understanding;                       In all your ways acknowledge Him,                       And He shall direct your paths.   21 years is a long time invested in a marriage. I would like to see you be able to reach to your husband through the power of God and save your marriage. Prayer is a powerful tool that God has given us. Use it consistantly and faithfuly. We may not always have our prayers answered the way "we" want, but they will truely be answered by the will of God. I ended up getting a divorce, But I was drawn back to my Father years later. I know now that was His plan, even though I couldn't realize that then.   I will pray for you and remember; I can do all things through Christ who strenghtens me. Philippians 4:13                                           Always in Prayer,                                                                   Greg Logged Reply: 1 - 13 lfcb Posted on: July 5th, 2010, 3:41am Baby Member Posts: 8 Thank you Greg so much for your reply and prayers.  I am going to need lots of prayers to see this thru.  Ideally, I would like to see my husband desire to have a relationship with God and accept Jesus as his saviour and all the rest that follows with those choices.  I could not face this if it weren't for God being in my life the way he is.  It is difficult enough with God, without Him and the Godly, encouragement and loving support I have found here and at my home church I would not have made it this far.  Also Greg, thank you for reminding me of God's truth ...in His word.               God Bless You Logged Reply: 2 - 13 angler Posted on: July 6th, 2010, 1:14am Baby Member Posts: 40 Dear lfcb,             I will continue to pray for you and your husband. I pray that Our Father will pour His HolySpirit into the Heart and Soul of your husband and Lay a lamp at his feet that will light the path which will lead your husband to Our Heavenly Father.   Remain faithful and trust in Our Father to help you in troubled times; We know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. Romans 8:28                                 Always in Prayer,                                                         Greg Logged Reply: 3 - 13 lfcb Posted on: July 10th, 2010, 3:52am Baby Member Posts: 8 Thank you Greg I really love that verse.. Romans 8:28...it makes sense of so much that has happened in my life.  What would I do without God's Word...the Truth. I will read your prayers over and over, especially when I feel doubtful feelings creep in, to keep me focused on God. I will keep you in my prayers also Greg. God Bless You Logged Reply: 4 - 13 angler Posted on: July 13th, 2010, 5:13am Baby Member Posts: 40 Dear lfcb,             I'm glad that you are feeling better! The truth in Gods word and promises to us are the best thing to focus on when we are going through tough times. I pray that you will find peace and happiness with your Husband.                                       Always in Prayer,                                                               Greg Logged Reply: 5 - 13 lfcb Posted on: July 21st, 2010, 1:03am Baby Member Posts: 8 Thank you Greg I am trying to focus and hear what God is directing me to do.  I go with that peace that is there when I am making any decissions after bringing it before God.  I am struggling with being judged by others for what I am doing...it is bringing confussion and hurt at this time.  Others think I should take a hard line with my husband, and at times I think so to.  But when I bring it before the Lord, that changes to ... that I need to show him love and compassion.  Or "be still" for now.  I know i dont need to be a doormat to do that, and I do know the difference.  It just takes too much explaining to others who do not know us both really well and it hurts to be judged, even when I know the words are given out of concern for me.  I think I will have to not answer questions when I am asked, so I don't have to explain.  I usually am a very open person, but am feeling like I need to keep things close...between me and God and a few who understand that any advice I will consider and take it to the Lord.  Some advice may be very sound, but only God know the timing.  God also knows both my husband and me better than anyone.  I am feeling a bit down tonite. God Bless you Greg for your replies to my prayer request. Linda Please keep praying for me and for us both.  I want to do the right thing according to God's word. Logged Reply: 6 - 13 angler Posted on: July 21st, 2010, 5:25am Baby Member Posts: 40 Dear lfcb,             I will continue to pray for you and your husband. I'm glad to hear that you are bringing your troubled feelings to God. I know all to well the mixed emotions that race through your heart and mind when a marriage suffers. I know the decisions you are facing seem too overwhelming. Remember that God promises that he will not let you suffer more than you can endure. He will always give you an escape from evil and temptations. Our Father is truely Almighty and always there for us,even when we don't feel his presense.   I am reading a book called Immanuel/Reflections on the Life of Christ, by Michael Card. I was reading it today in the doctors office and I read a section called, The Things We Leave Behind. It spoke of the business that Simon Peter left behind to follow Jesus. It also spoke of his strong pride that he let go of. It told the story of the blind beggar who left his robe behind after receiving his sight from Jesus. The author tells of a vision that reoccurs in his mind of a path that disappears in the distance. Either side of this path is strewn with various objects. A cloak. A cane. An expensive car with the door left open, with the keys still in the ignition. The objects represent all the things that people have left behind to follow Jesus. It really made me take inventory of the things that I myself had left behind to follow Jesus.   After reading that, I myself saw Bottles of beer. Pornographic books and movies.A lifetime of obscenities. A pot pipe. A stuborn angry grin. A violent snarl. A boastful pride. A broken heart. I never realized how much I left behind to follow Jesus. I also didn't realize how quickly I had let go of them. When you really love someone as I love Jesus, it becomes more clear as to what is really important in your walk with Jesus. There will be good things to hold on to, and there will be things that you are going to set down along that path and continue on your way.   I pray for the best for both of you, and I pray God will continue to provide guidance and healing.                                                               Always in Prayer,                                                                                       Greg Logged Reply: 7 - 13 lfcb Posted on: July 22nd, 2010, 11:32pm Baby Member Posts: 8 Greg, Thankyou for sharing that.  It means more than you will know....it is possible...miracles do happen! God Bless You Greg. Linda Logged Reply: 8 - 13 angler Posted on: July 26th, 2010, 7:52pm Baby Member Posts: 40 Dear lfcb,             Our Father is capable of anything! Have high expectations in God and His strength and mercy;Be patient and faithful in His timing and actions. You are doing the right thing by bringing your troubles to God. You are right that He knows you and your husband best.   I will continue to pray for the both of you. God Bless the both of you!                                                                                               Always in Prayer,                                                                                                                     Greg Logged Reply: 9 - 13 angler Posted on: August 23rd, 2010, 4:46am Baby Member Posts: 40 Dear lfcb,             How are you doing? I haven't heard from you and I hope all is well with you and your husband. I will continue to pray for you. God Bless you!                                                                           Always in prayer,                                                                                                 Greg Logged Reply: 10 - 13 lfcb Posted on: August 23rd, 2010, 2:07pm Baby Member Posts: 8 Thank you Greg Things are going somewhat better between us, although there are some things that just haven't come up that are sensitive issues for us...but it sure is nice for now and I am thankful for this time. We are facing some legal matters of late, that we thought were long ago done with.  It is a real challenge for us to go back to a bad time and may creat severe financial hardship.  So far though, my prayers and the prayers of many have prevailed.  It will be good for "truth" in the situation to be revealed, which we did not think we would have a chance on.  All in all, I have prayed and asked for prayer to accept whatever comes of this as part of God's greater plan in my life (and in my husband's life and for our marriage). So far it has brought us closer together and has given me yet another chance to share that I am depending on God no matter the outcome.  There have been a few tense moments for me, as the enemy is trying to distract me with all kinds of tactics.  I pray for God to reveal these to me daily, so that I can identify what is real, and cast the enemy out of my mind and feelings.  I am growing thru all of this in my faith and relationship with God...so that is a very good thing. Thank you Greg for your continued support in prayers and these messages.  I really appreciate them more than I can express in words. I hope things are going well for you.  I have read your other posts, although I must admit I haven't been on here so much lately, so I am not up to date on your current circumstances.  Please accept my appologies for that.  I will check later this week for an update from you. God Bless You Greg Linda Logged Reply: 11 - 13 angler Posted on: August 24th, 2010, 2:27am Baby Member Posts: 40 Dear Linda,               I am so happy to hear that things are improving for you and your husband! I'm sorry to hear that you have some legal problems,but you have each other and the power of God the Father to get you through this! I have had to go through some very painful times and have lost a home and a vehicle that ruined my credit. As bad as that was, I see now that I had to be stipped of all the obstacles and sin in my life to accept God back into my life.   You said that it will be good for the Truth to be revealed, and you are so right! The word of God is the Truth and Truth will set you Free! Seek Truth and you will Find God! Accept God and you will accept Truth! Truth is a lamp that God will set at your feet to light your path. Gods work is done openly in the light, true and good, while satan is deceitful and lurks hidden in the darkness.   God is truely shaping you to be the person he needs you to be. Be joyful and rejoice in His Love that graciously presents to His Children. I will continue to pray for you and your husband. Remember That all is possible through God Our Father! God Bless you Linda!                                                                       Always in Prayer,                                                                                             Greg Logged Reply: 12 - 13 lfcb Posted on: August 30th, 2010, 1:52am Baby Member Posts: 8 Thank you Greg again for your prayers, it means so much to know you are praying for me.  I have hit a very difficult time, something from the past with this legal stuff.  I can tell that God has changed me.  I sometimes feel the feelings and want to react, but instead of lashing out, well I just don't.  I feel like it, but I know that is not how God wants me to be.  That is a bit of revelation that God has shown me that He is answering my prayer to change me.  The things that I have been having to dig into this past couple of weeks, do remind me that I want that part of my life over, a new start, no matter what I have to let go of.  I just can't be in that life anymore, ever again.  I pray that I will do whatever God leads me to, even if it means leaving somethings/people in my life behind.  Hopefully I don't have to leave anyone too dear to me behind.  I just can't live a life that is contrary to God's word.  Please continue to pray for me and my family. 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